Some dating tips: an unsolicited advice

**Disclaimer: The ideas that I am about to share here are not absolutely mine. I researched on some of the ideas shared and I like to post them here. The dating tips are just merely personal opinion. They are not purely absolute tips with a 101% success rate. Dating has so many ways and many approaches. Take these as opinionated tips and not expert-made ones.**

**UPDATE: I'll post an additional blog about another baby-thingy that can be used for dating. Big thanks to Bro. Meltom. \m/

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I attended a church-related activity with some of my church friends moments ago. As we were walking back towards SMX for our church-related activity, while passing by French Baker, one of my church friend shared some tips on dating. My interest flared up when he shared these to me and my other church buddy.

So here's how it goes.

Chocolate croissant. Here's a picture:

As we passed by French Baker, he shared to us about treating a girl with chocolate croissant. What's in a chocolate croissant? Is it the croissant itself or the chocolate content?

I researched on this one and according to sources, chocolate contains ESTROGEN. Uh, estrogen? Female hormone? YES the FEMALE HORMONE. Other hormones that chocolate has are SEROTONIN and PHENYLETHYLAMINE (I wish not to elaborate more on these hormones, I don't want to conclude too much. It's for you people to judge why). Sounds biochemistry? I know it sucks reading terms like these again but like what my friend said, these hormones stimulate what he calls the "motherly instinct" of a woman. A motherly instinct based on an operational definition may be that caring instinct, the affective and emotional side of a woman that may cause her to soften and become loving. Sounds like a key for a guy dating a hard-to-get girl to hit that soft spot. It's also an Aphrodisiac, and that's a proven fact. Ka-ching!

Baby cologne (It should've been BABY POWDER but I'll just tweak on some details here that are accurate with what he shared about baby powder). Here's a picture with matching price tag if in case you'd like to buy:

Another tip our church buddy shared is the use of baby cologne. Baby cologne? Why not those nice scented ones like CK, Davidoff, Diesel, Armani? First and foremost, it's neither about the brand nor the price. It's just the baby fragrant scent. I don't know exactly how to describe it, but according to him, the baby scent also stimulates that motherly caring instinct. He said girls have a predilection for sweet-scented colognes and perfumes, and baby cologne may be included in those (it's an opinion and not a stated fact). I'm not absolute about its effectiveness because I haven't tried it (I don't date. Maybe someday. :P ) but if ever it's true, anyone can comment on this blog.

My friend emphasized on the importance of the "motherly instinct" of girls. Guys nowadays, when they date girls, focus more on themselves dominating the date rather than appreciating the girl as a person. Girls want to be taken care of when being on a date. These tips don't exactly hit the jackpot, but I believe these tips act as catalysts towards a worthwhile and effective dating experience. But always remember that it's not always the actions and the gestures that give color to dating, it's the approach and grooming.

Happy dating! :P